Your career will benefit
You can enjoy the opportunity of building your career or meeting your long-term goals when you're single without being saddled with the extra baggage or tied down with familial responsibilities. You are free to put in long hours, work on the weekends as you please without having to report your whereabouts to your significant other.
You can save money
Being single allows you to keep the money you earn. Sure it also means that no one is sharing your utility bills but it's nowhere near the money you will spend if you are hooked up with someone. For instance you have to shell out for anniversary and birthday gifts as well as going out expenses if you have a significant other. It's easier to keep spending in check when you're not financially obligated to anyone but yourself. Plus, you'd be surprised with the increased feeling of self-worth and satisfaction by indulging yourself with your hard-earned money.
You can enjoy serenity
Think about not having to hear naggings about the mess you made in your bedroom. Instead of someone hogging the side of your bed, you are more rested when you sleep alone. You will appreciate the opportunity to have some quiet time to relax at home. Being single also lets you have more time to discover who you really are, set your personal goals and pursue your passions.
You'll be worry-free
Difference of opinions brings about heart-wrenching disagreements and arguments. By staying single, you can avoid these altogether and follow your whims to live life as you please. Plus, you don't have to fret about who your partner is going out with or if he's cheating on you.
You can dress as you like
When you're single, the world is your oyster. Buy whatever clothings you like without having to deal with judgments from your partner. There's nobody pointing out your flaws. It's the perfect opportunity to dress and style yourself as you wish.
More time with friends
You're absolutely free to hang out with your buddies, party all night and get embarrassingly drunk with nobody to tell you otherwise. Instead of making plans for two and in advance, no one is stopping you from making spur-of-the-moment decisions to go on weekend trips with your friends.
太 possessive,让人喘不过气的人,
You can avoid parenthood
Not everyone is cut out for parenthood and bringing up a child is never an easy task. Also, some career-oriented people are probably 'married' to their job, so you don't have to fret if having kids might derail or limit your career prospects.
You can watch whatever you want on TV
Imagine being forced to watch a chick flick or sports channel that you're not interested in. But now, the remote control is all yours. Besides, you can enjoy the luxury of having the couch and ice-cream all to yourself.
哈哈!
我不喜欢看电视!
可以在两个房间装两架电视阿,
反正看电视的时候都没有接触,
挤在一起干嘛。 =S
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You don't have to hide or quit your habits
Spending big moolah for your favourite designer shoes? With unlimited shopping privileges, there's no need to hide your purchases to avoid getting an earful from your partner. You can indulge all your bizarre interests and no longer have to fake interests in his or her hobbies.
坏习惯要不得。
你喜欢人家阻止你,
那你就自生自灭吧。
坦白是爱的基本。
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More time to find the right soul mate
With love so hard to define these days, how do you know if your feelings are not just infatuations? Staying single for a period of time can potentially help avoid the mistake of the lifetime by marrying or getting attached to someone out of desperation. You can enjoy the endless dating possibilities and flirt all you want with your potential partners.
如果已经找到,
就不用烦恼这点啦!
随着年纪越来越大,
好的对象都被人家拿完了吧。
剩下的,
不一定还有得你来选择。
就像巴刹的水果那样。
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但,
不是每个人都需要爱情。
不是每个人都把心灵上的满足看得比钱还重要。
不是每个人都懂得爱,
不是每个人都配被爱。
p.s. 你,主宰你的人生。



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